“DON’T BE ASHAMED OF YOUR SCARS!”
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WHOM SHOULD I MARRY?
For Abigail, there seem to be too many so called secrets to marital bliss. Worried by the diverse rules, regulations and prohibitions she couldn’t help but to inquire of me saying, “Whom should I marry!?”
On hearing the question, I quickly called to remembrance a beautiful sermon, at a youth forum by an experienced marriage counselor on the issue of choice of marriage partner and how to enjoy a fulfilling marriage.
He likened marriage to the setting of the zip teeth in a zipper. To achieve this, he said there must be compatibility and agreement towards only one direction at a time; even though it is from two different perspectives. Thus, relationship in marriage requires a willing self-revelation of individual subjective views of value of life, to create an intimacy that places a sense of commitment to the responsibility of interdependence by adjustment over an extended allowance of time with perseverance.
Furthermore, he explained that marriage, which is a relationship created and instituted by God is established for the fulfillment of God’s will for the androgynous gene that was initially tampered with interdependent resources (clay, breath, soul) for mental and muscular services that require a separation of individual genders that a biological face-to-face communication and a complementary setting of individual contribution. In essence, marriage is not a relationship of a superior gender over an inferior one rather it is a relationship made to strengthen a man and a woman created in God’s own image. (Gen.1:26-30)
In view of these assertions, spinsters and bachelors need to pay rapt attention to the following requirements and qualifications of marriageable prospects. I hope you would patiently meditate on this requirements which I consider valid answers to the question of whom to marry.
- Be born again with the evidences of thorough discipleship and look for the same in someone to marry. Remember that you will attract who you are. Prov. 13:20; John3:5).
- Abstain from peer and social pressures insted, live a life that is dedicated to God so that He can work all things for your good (Gal.5:19-21).
- Identify what God has foreknown and predestinated your life for, in order to know who has compatible life style and vision as yours or who could compliment you. Isa.49:9
- Accept and be committed to the price of each level of realizing the goals of God’s vision in your predestination. Phil.3:12-16.
- Discover and develop your potentials (temperamental strengths, talents, spiritual gifts, vocational or industrial skills, relational skills, leadership qualities etc.) toward a realization of God’s plan and purpose for your life. Eph.3:20.
- Watch and pray to locate the person who is compatible with your life and vision. Prov.18:22
- Don’t despise the period of small beginning in faith, finance and family. Job 8:7; Mt.13:31-33.
- Test the love of your future by being the real and transparent in your dealings to highlight the measure of value that she/he places on money, occupation, tender care, friendship, social relationship/ceremony, in-door house chores, intimacy and keeping confidences, sex, child rearing (not just bearing), in-law relations etc.
- Be committed to tolerance and building up of the potentials of your future partner based on the Bible pattern of a successful family enrichment details.
- Regularly receive pre-marital counselling from couple-models that you enjoy their family life pattern. Prov.15:22, 20:18, 24:5-6.
- Marry the content (values, principles and commitment) not the container (cosmetics, status, wealth, charisma or talents).
In conclusion, do not marry to receive what you cannot or you are lazy to produce and to do for yourself by yourself because marriage does not change the basic human personality neither does it remove loneliness. Marriage satisfies sense of aloneness and gender-emotional urges.
Note that, your daily objectives and what you want to achieve per time as conclusion of your actions should determine that method/approach you should adopt in marital relationship. Marriage is a covenant and calls for keeping of confidence and a provision to help the weak partner. Gen.2:15; Eze.16:8; Mal.2:14-15.
The answer to the question of whom to marry lies in doing the will of the creator of life. He formed us and knows what each of us is made of. With him we can’t fail; with his counsel we are guaranteed of a blissful marital relationship. You are winning! Yes, we are winning!
Sermon By Rev. Olaniyi Abiola
https://yeswearewinning.com/2017/03/17/let-off-hook/ (more…)
THE LABOUR ROOM: A GIANT LEAP TOWARDS NATIONAL DEVELOPMENT
As the Maiden edition of the Labour Room reality TV show kicks off in few days from now, I anticipate a truly innovative, insightful and entertaining show that would see a huge leap towards youth empowerment and national development.
The “LABOUR ROOM” is the first National Development Reality TV Show in Africa, strategically designed by Nigeria Rebirth Foundation to activate the super potentials of Nigerians with selected 37 housemates representing the States of Nigeria and the FCT, from complex backgrounds, to be housed in a “MANSION” for a 60 days, 24 hours Television Reality Show for Broadcast on DSTV, STARTIMES, NTA, Free TV, Ben TV London and other dedicated Channels.
The Programme is designed to promote Unity in our Diversity and shall over the 60 days, analyse and x-ray the myriad of issues of our Nationhood, articulating the workable, sustainable solutions and recommendations for reform.
STRATEGIC BENEFITS OF THE LABOUR ROOM TO EACH STATE
- The economic potentials of each State will be projected to over 200 million viewers across the world for 60 days.
- Over 1000 local products will be marketed and sold worldwide in the course of the 60 days broadcast.
- The Labour room reality TV show will see the top four taking home the grand prize of a 200 million naira local content driven company which may be situated in the State whose Contestant emerges the overall winner.
The show which is greatly supported by Royal fathers, both indigenous and foreign companies as well as great industry brands, is expected run from September 17 through November 17, 2017.
Oba Ooni of Ife, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi (Ojaja II), and his Amiable Olori
Staff of Concept to Soution (C2S Nig), a media partner of the project, and guests
Football legend, John Fashanu, and other guests
A cross-section of guests at the Launch.
The launch of Nigeria Rebirth LABOUR ROOM NATIONAL DEVELOPMENT REALITY TV SHOW will take place at the International Conference Centre, Abuja on the 17th of September 2017 by 5pm.
Kudos to Chief Isaac Balami, Founder/National Coordinator Nigeria Rebirth Foundation (08069648792), and his indefatigable team.
Yes we are winning (YWAW) Team is proud to be an official blogger of the show.
Yes, we are winning!
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DIVINELY CONCEPTUALIZED, DESIGNED, DEVELOPED AND DESTINED (4-D)
“I woke up this morning with these words: divinely conceptualized, designed, developed and destined (4-D). It’s exactly a year that God’s delight, Oluwademilade Tiwalade was born. And the joy of his arrival gives me great ecstasy always.
I knew he was to arrive on Tuesday 6th September but I wasn’t quite sure how it would play out. By 7 a.m of this beautiful day, I was already being prep for the theater, both emotionally and with series of injections and medications. With a mixed feelings of anxiety and hope, but with much faith in the magnanimity of God, I was certain that all would be well!
Surrounded by specialists and well-
experienced Doctors who were also godly and full of faith, I was laid on the bed for what was going to be a unique experience for me. I recalled smiling at the jokes being made by one of the doctors, and enjoying the sweet music being played while I was being cut.
At about 10 a.m on this bright day, God’s design and heritage -Oluwademilade cried out on arrival to this world. It was obvious by his cries that he was glad to be born. And my response was in tears of joy for the miracle of a king, God’s delight. Thus, we welcome our crown, Tiwalade triumphantly and we rejoiced in the special gift of a prodigy, after nine years of waiting on God.
Now I understand that Delightsome is a divine concept of God, created and designed for His pleasure, and destined for greatness. He is God’s own project, and his portion is secured in God. This understanding is captured by King David when he said, “For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well.…” (Psalm 139:13-14).
For you who is waiting on God for a fulfillment of His promises, don’t beat yourself up; God remembers! God knows and He will save you!
Rejoice with us as we celebrate this great treasure as he turns ONE year old today. “Blessed be the Lord -day after day he carries us along. He’s our saviour, our God, oh yes! He’s -for-us, He’s God-who-saves-us. (Psalm 18:19). This is our song, this is our testimony! Yes, we are winning!”
#4D
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LABOUR ROOM TV REALITY SHOW’S KADUNA REPRESENTATIVE ESCAPES KIDNAP ATTEMPT
Yes we are winning, YWAW team can reliably report that Sharon Demige Istifanus escaped kidnap by a narrow chance. Click to read full story: http://www.elanzanews.com/labour-room-tv-reality-shows-kaduna-representative-escapes-kidnap-attempt/
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